💍 Adjustment of Status Through Marriage: Interview Tips 🗣️
The adjustment of status interview is a critical step for anyone applying for a green card based on marriage to a U.S. citizen or lawful permanent resident. While it may seem straightforward—it’s important to prepare thoroughly.
Here are some practical tips to help you and your spouse feel confident and ready for the big day:
📝 1. Review Your Application Packet
Before the interview, review everything you submitted to USCIS—especially Forms I-130 and I-485, and all supporting documents.
🔍 Double-check:
Dates (when you met, got engaged, married, etc.)
Addresses and employment history
Previous marriages or children
Any discrepancies or gaps
💡 Pro Tip: Go over the forms together as a couple—it’s a great way to refresh your memory.
💑 2. Know Your Relationship Story Inside & Out
The officer may ask detailed questions about how you met, your daily routine, your wedding, or even your sleeping arrangements. The key is consistency and honesty.
Common questions include:
When and how did you meet?
Who proposed—and how?
What did you do for your last holiday or birthday?
Do you live together? Who pays what bills?
What side of the bed does your spouse sleep on?
🧠 You don’t have to be perfect—but wildly different answers can raise red flags.
📂 3. Bring Updated Evidence of Your Life Together
Bring recent documents that show your shared life—especially if your interview is months after filing.
📎 Examples:
Joint lease or mortgage
Utility bills in both names
Tax returns filed jointly
Photos from trips, family gatherings, holidays
Affidavits from friends or family
Joint bank accounts or insurance
🗂️ Organize everything in a labeled binder or folder for easy presentation.
🗣️ 4. Be Honest and Calm—Even If You’re Nervous
It’s okay to be a little nervous—officers understand. But don’t try to memorize answers or tell the officer what you think they want to hear. Honesty is always better than perfection.
🧘 Take a deep breath, listen carefully to the questions, and answer naturally. If you don’t remember something, it’s okay to say “I’m not sure” or “I’d have to check.”
💡 Important: Never guess if you’re unsure—it’s better to admit you don’t recall than to give incorrect information.
🛑 5. Watch for Signs of a Stokes Interview (Separated Interviews)
If the officer has doubts about the marriage, they may separate you and your spouse to ask the same questions and compare answers.
This doesn’t always mean trouble—but it’s a sign they’re looking closely.
📌 Be extra mindful of consistency if this happens.
👔 6. Dress Neatly and Arrive Early
Dress professionally—like you would for a job interview. It shows respect and seriousness. Arrive at least 50 minutes early to allow time for security checks and delays.
🆔 Bring your interview notice, government-issued ID, and original documents (like birth and marriage certificates etc.).
⚖️ 7. Know When to Get Legal Help
If there are complications in your case—such as a criminal record, immigration violations, or prior denials—it’s a smart idea to attend with an immigration attorney.
An attorney can:
Clarify legal issues during the interview
Protect your rights
Address any unexpected challenges on the spot
🏁 Final Thought: Preparation = Peace of Mind
Your marriage is real—and your story is worth telling. With preparation, documentation, and honesty, you can walk into your interview with confidence and take one step closer to your green card.
Need help with this case? Our firm has helped countless families stay together. Contact us today for a consultation. We serve clients in New York, New Jersey, Arizona, and across the U.S.
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